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LOVE GOES BEYOND....

 

Love goes beyond the mushy mushy tingling feeling, Chocolates, Malls and Bedroom. 


Love is Safety : How safe do they make you feel financially, physically and psychologically? 


Love is encompassing: "Do you feel loved only when you're with them or only when you talk to them? Does the feeling extend after you communicate or it is shortlived?


Love is peace: How peaceful does their existence make your life? Do you feel your life is good without them in it or your life is bliss with them in it? 


Love is mutual: How do they reciprocate what you give to them? How much do they show that you are both on the same page? 


Love is considerate: How considerate are they about things?  Do they factor you in their everyday lives?  Do you matter in their everyday lives?


Love is consistent: How consistent is their attention and affection? Do they depict the 'Abiku' tendencies or they are always there, steady,  constant?


Love is growth : Do they add to your growth and development in anyway?  or they don't care about your growth? Do they have mind boggling and brain resetting convos with you or is it mushy mushy talks all the time? 

Do they want you to be better or they don't just care? 


Love is beautiful : Do you enjoy your time with them or it's one quarrel after another? Do you have more good memories than bad memories or bad memories than good memories? 


Love is forever : Do you see yourself in their bigger picture? Do they include you in the bigger picture? 


If it's all these and more,  then it is love.  But if it's not,  then it's not.

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